"I can't help but worry about other people. Is there any trick to not being swayed by them?"
Ignore other people more. It's okay if you don't worry about them.

People who worry too much about others are watching others.
They gather information about others and think too much.

By adopting behavior that doesn't require thinking,
you can erase other people from your mind.

I've given you some concrete examples.

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00:00 Today's Theme
00:25 ① Don't look at the other person
02:42 ② Don't gather information
04:48 ③ Do something else with your time
06:52 ④ Make someone you like
08:48 ⑤ It's dangerous, so don't go near it
11:18 ⑥ It leads to good experiences
13:39 ⑦ Don't think of the other person as your property
16:21 Summary: Don't watch, listen, or look into it

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Ryota

Born in 1984. Qualified as a mental health counselor and behavioral psychologist, interpersonal skills acquired through 15 years of parallel work from manufacturing to teaching,
and experience studying healing through music, psychology and ethics at university,
he started a counseling business.

Currently, he mainly communicates and works as a writer about human relationship problems.

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